Cheating Spouses Are Exploring Their Sexuality
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Sexuality in marriage is not about a sex life, it is about a love life, and until it reaches the level of having a sex life it will never be sufficient.
The reason why that is so, is because every sexually active person, no matter at what stage in life they may be, wants to experiment with their sexuality. Even if you do not have a sex drive it does not mean that you are going to turn off your sexuality.
Contrary to popular belief, men are not the only ones who want to have sex. Not just any woman is going to give up sex just because she does not have the drive to do it. Great sex is based on the whole package, not just the sexual encounter.
As a matter of fact, most cheating wives do not even know their husbands are cheating! They have come to the conclusion that the love they are having with their husbands are the same as the love they have had with other women. There is a certain feeling that they are so used to and comfortable with men, that they do not even know they are cheating.
People that situation where they can relate to the man that they cheated with, have the same sexual desires and inclinations. So in effect, it is the same person. So they will go to the same places, the same places, so they start to do the same things with the person.
This is why it is very hard to understand and believe that they are cheating because they really feel and act the same way as the cheating spouse.
grasp the fact that this is not a sexless marriage. This is a marriage that has been consummated with sexual feelings and desires. So it is not a true affair.
Lastly, if you are going to get involved in a relationship, you should be sure that it is right for you. There is no way to know if the person is going to be faithful or not. All you can do is to try and understand their actions and if it is going to be worth your time, effort, and resources to keep your marriage.
You do not have to waste your time and resources dating the person up front. Instead, you can start working on a relationship revitalizing trust and respect.
You can start simply by standing your ground. Be honest about what you want and listen to your partner. If they are alike to you, there is the even that you two can learn from each other. You can start to stand your ground for what you believe in and decide what is right for you.
Standing your ground on what you believe in is the best way to start a relationship. Let your partner see that you are trustworthy, and count some among the things that you believe in and are willing to fight for.
Here are some basics to stand your ground:
Ad Infinite Pleasure:
1. A Good Sex Life is Essential for the Success of your Relationship
2. Every relationship needs intimacy to succeed- long term and short term
3. The frequency of intimacy should be at a certain level that is steady and not getting worse
4. Intimacy should be given more importance than just sex
5. Talking intimately about what is going on in your relationship is not talking attacking the person
6. You should not read the newspaper, watch the news, or listen to the radio without your partner
These are just a few areas that can be touched on to help you start creating the intimate relationship that you desire. Find out more about these areas and how to tackle them from a more viable point of view. From there, you can be successful in creating your intimate relationship.
Sexuality in marriage is not about a sex life, it is about a love life, and until it reaches the level of having a sex life it will never be sufficient. The reason why that is so, is because every sexually active person, no matter at what stage in life they may be, wants to…
Sexuality in marriage is not about a sex life, it is about a love life, and until it reaches the level of having a sex life it will never be sufficient. The reason why that is so, is because every sexually active person, no matter at what stage in life they may be, wants to…